“Our sex-life was in fact very nearly non-existent for decades”
“(I’ve cheated) several times. With escorts and a mistress. We felt no shame aided by the escorts because no thoughts had been included, but We dropped madly deeply in love with my mistress and that made me feel extremely responsible. Mostly only if I became with my mistress, not really much after.
“For the record, my partner cheated until our sex life had been almost non-existent for years on me multiple times before I ever thought about cheating on her, and I didn’t seriously consider it.